Masturbation Verbal Cues (and body language)

MY JOB IS TO LISTEN TO YOU AND UNDERSTAND YOU WITHOUT SEEING YOU!

How much of communication is verbal vs nonverbal?  That question has been studied properly since the 60’s and almost no one agrees on exactly how much is verbal, but everyone agrees that non-verbal communication can be as high as 80%.  Can you imagine how difficult it is for me since 100% of my work involves verbal communication?  Not to mention many men just don’t feel free to speak up.

There is a big difference between verbal and non-verbal communication when it comes to working in phone sex.  I hope you read this post…Candace

I listen to you breathe and I can hear you smile.

HOW CAN A PHONE SEX OPERATOR GIVE YOU THE BEST EXPERIENCE WITHOUT SEEING YOU?

BY, YOU USING VERBAL and NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION.

Verbal communication is using speech or spoken word to exchange information, emotions, and thoughts. Conversely, non-verbal communication is conveying and exchanging messages without the use of spoken words.

I can hear a smile.  I can hear anger.  I can hear distraction.  I can hear an emotionally closed person.

I can hear/feel nervousness.  I can hear happiness.  I can hear/feel depression.  I am empathic. 

What that means is that I have the ability to feel the thoughts and feelings of others without seeing them.

EXAMPLE OF AN EMPATHIC COMMUNICATION.

This week I took a call from a gentleman who at first made me think he was either angry or distracted.  As we spoke, it turned out he was neither.  He was actually quite articulate and well-mannered.  But, as our call continued, I had to ask him why he was so clipped and monotoned. His reply was, he didn’t realize that he was! LOL.  He was.

I pulled out my magic wand and began doing some masturbation instructions which made him very happy.  He followed Mistresses instructions very well and was very rewarded.  The thing is, that I only heard a smile on his face and a loosening up of his mood at the end.

VISUAL CUES MAKE COMMUNICATION SO MUCH EASIER.

The reason Zoom and Skype and other visual meetings programs exploded over Covid lockdowns is because SEEING SOMEONE is essential (normally) to effective communication.  IN phone sex, I don’t have the valuable offer to see your face and hands to better understand what you want/need.

Seeing you would be great, but I don’t have that luxury.  I have to respond to the words you are using to describe your thoughts, emotions and desires.  If you can’t offer those in an effective way, I cannot help.  Letting me hear your satisfaction or getting your clarification, if I get it wrong is ESSSENTIAL to your money being spent well.

HOW CAN YOU HELP?

Tone: or tonality; express your feelings without having to state your feelings.  Are you happy, upset, excited or nervous?  Using tone of voice is easy and using during a phone sex exchange should be easy.

Clarity: being clear or articulate about what you’ve been feeling, wanting, needing or experiencing should be explained to me.  If you have a hard time explaining it to me verbally, write it out before you call or send a chat or send a tribute and I’ll read an email.

Use nonverbal cues: Smile when I’m doing masturbation instruction or roll your head or eyes when you’re enjoying it, trust me, I will hear that.  Even breathing harder or moaning can be helpful.

I am particularly amused when I hear, “Oh shit” as I am teaching you my advanced guided masturvbation or JOI instructions.  It’s fun for me!

Please don’t talk like your boss or the FBI just called you into a conference room to question you.

Candace